Monday, August 13, 2012

MY FIRST BLOG

It's funny! Today I was sitting at work thoughts racing through my head and I said to myself...'why can't you just concentrate on one thing! you always have a million things going on in your head!' I had to left because I blame it on the fault of my sign VIRGO! which means I'm always going to over analyze everything! Long story short I decided to start this blog to kinda ummm clear my head I guess. Be easy on me! I've never done this before.
 Topic for today: Men vs Women
We had some interesting work conversations today...the fact that both our supervisors were away didn't help at all....but we ended up getting on the same subject as we usually do....MEN VS WOMEN!
 I unintentionally started the conversation when speaking about a girl being pretty. One of my younger male co-workers observed and loudly stated...
"You know sometimes I think you might be Gay...you are always talking about how some girl is pretty."
Immediately one of my [less girly I hate everything feminine but No I'm not gay I'm just a Tom Boy] coworkers jumped to my defense.
"Girls are different then guys...we can say someone else is pretty, but men, unless extremely...what's the word"
"Comfortable" I added
"Yes comfortable! unless men are comfortable in their sexuality they refuse to speak about another man's outter appearance!" She finished
With that the conversation started. I tried to explain the difference between a physical attraction and a Sexual attraction to the young man and another young male who was in the room.
"For example...I am physically attracted to Kim Kardasian...I think her physical appearance is attractive BUT just because I am attracted to her physical appearance does not mean I want to have Sex with the girl!"
I tried to explain and then they explained to me with guys...if they think a women is physically attractive then yes they do have a sexual attraction!...It's soooooo funny how men ad women have totally different opinions. No?



LoveOverAll,
TeeJay <3